Lecture 9: Gender & Kinship

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Gender

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The differences between male & female center on the "nature/nurture" debate

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some differences may be natural

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But gender roles = normative behavior

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gender roles have no inherent relationship to the sex we are

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culture assigns personality traits, occupations, and interests on the basis of gender

 

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Male-Female Differences: Real or Imaginary

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Some Biological differences (aside from the obvious reproductive differences)

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Male primates tend to be more aggressive (seen in play, e.g.: wrestling, fighting)

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Personality & Ability

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both boys & girls are social, but often in different ways

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boys' social life consists of physical play in larger groups

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girls are more inclined to smaller groups & talk

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girls have greater verbal ability

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boys have greater visual-spatial ability

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(i.e., shapes and figures and their relationships to one another)

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But these are just probabilities, really. Some boys have excellent verbal ability; ditto, some girls have excellent verbal-spatial ability

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Sex is a biological fact; gender is a cultural & psychological fact

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we learn to be male and female: or at least to be male and female in distinctive ways

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reinforced by parents, schools, peers

 

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Why does gender matter?

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"What we define as real is real in its consequences." (William Isaac Thomas)

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gender stereotypes (rigid, simplified mental images)

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historically: men = "intelligent and active"; women = passive, family life, emotional ties

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costs of stereotyping

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legal assumptions of male support (remember the feminization of poverty)

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gender & occupational segregation

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the "pink collar ghetto"

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women underpaid/ and paid less for the same jobs

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about 75-80% of male salary

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Gender Roles in transition

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The new woman (aspirations: 85% = career women w/ children)

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"superwomen"

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role strain

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women: conflict between professional & family lives

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The Second Shift (Arlie Hochschild)

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still doing more work at home, despite full time PLF participation

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culture lag continues

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Males also changing from what some have called the "breadwinner trap"

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traditionally, an economic role (duties and obligations)

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overly dependent upon occupation for identity

 

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Two general theoretical "takes" on why gender roles are as they are

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Conflict Theory

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Marx: Mode of Production determines relations of production & the "superstructure" (family, religion, ideology, the state)

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The superstructure is responsible for reproducing the status quo

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Division of sexual labor represents the emotional exploitation of both men and women:

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in effect, 1/2 selves

 

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Men: emotional detachment is necessary

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emotions interfere with work, which interferes with production and with profit

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if men paid attention to their emotions, they'd agitate for better treatment on the job

 

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women: primary job in re: economy = what they call "reproduction of the working class"

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aspirations of achievement would interfere with the necessity of bringing up the next generation of workers

 

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These same theorists argue that we even see relationships in commodified terms

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Love and the marketplace (or better, love as a marketplace)

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formal rationality extending into our affective lives

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We make a self-assessment based upon what we perceive to be our (culturally determined) strong and weak points and trade upon those points to get the best deal we can on the market

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we objectify our selves & others

 

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Functionalists, on the other hand:

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gender roles are a division of labor designed to make the most of economic opportunity:

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men have been the paid workers

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women have "reproduced" the working class

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everyone has benefited from that arrangement

 

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under those conditions, the middle class has grown

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as economic realities have changed, the sexes have made the "necessary" adaptations to continue their materially comfortable lifestyles

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THE FAMILY (Kinship) IN MODERN SOCIETY (one of the four core social institutions)

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Three Main Functions

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Regulates sexual relations (establishes rules for):

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who may sleep and have sex with whom

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 exchange of sexual partners between (v. w/in) families

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what the anthropologist Bronislaw Malinowski called the principle of reciprocity

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uniting two previously un-united families

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creating a network of social ties which binds the social structure together

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Child-rearing

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clarification of social identity ("Are you any relation to ...?")

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establishes (what used to be called) "legitimacy": a much less ugly term for the same idea is

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lineality: the path along which a person's blood and property lines are traced

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Household Composition (who lives with whom? how does the family fit into the larger economy?)

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Forms of Families (as discussed, the form of the family has changed greatly in the modern world)

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Affected by both social structural realities (urban & industrial)

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And by changing cultural values and norms

 

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Cultural Factors affecting family composition

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Norms regarding number of mates

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Monogamy = one mate per person

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polygamy = more than one wife

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polyandry = more than one husband

 

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Norms regarding pool of eligible mates

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exogamy = rules requiring marriage outside a certain group (incest taboo)

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endogamy= rules requiring marriage inside a certain group (race, religion, social class)

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homogamy (not such a hard and fast rule, per se, but): the probability & tendency to marry people like ourselves

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so, although we marry for love, who we fall in love with is powerfully affected by cultural norms

 

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American Family (Changes = industrialization, the changing status of women: but, the family has become or is becoming more modern all the time: urban, and bureaucratized and pluralistic in form)

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Changes in relationship between household and larger economy (many of these we've already discussed in the stratification segment of the course)

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ca. 60-65% of wives are both housewives & waged labor

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ca. 60-70% of moms w/ school-aged kids have outside jobs

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combination of both necessity & opportunity: smaller families, more time, service industries

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happier marriages if wife wants to work

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Changes in Child-Rearing

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New status of the child

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fewer kids; increasing childlessness (extra mouths to feed; very expensive (through high school = ca. $100,000))

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smaller families; working parents

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more attention from adults; greater share of family $

 

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Child care: (cost/quality; also socialization)

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time in school = start earlier, stay longer

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ca. 60-65% of all pre-school age kids in school

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tv: pre-schoolers = 33 hours per week; 6th graders = 31 hours

 

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Many issues families face reflect (again): Private troubles and Public Issues (Mills)

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in many instances, there is a poor fit between the family and other institutions

1. Schools still act as if it's the 1950's. 2. Day care (expense) 3. employers: still unhelpful on family policies (w/ some noted exceptions); 4. State: FMLA (but 95% of the labor force is not eligible)

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Changes in Household Composition

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Divorce: dramatic increases

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divorce rate = # of divorces per 100 married persons (the accompanying table shows the changing rate over time)

1920 13.4
1930 17
1940 16.9
1950 23.1
1960 25.8
1970 32.8
1980 49.7
1992 51.4
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why the increase in divorce?

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emotional satisfaction >economic security

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reduction in necessity and benefits of marriage

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increased female opportunities

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reduction of stigma -- no-fault divorce; generally easier to divorce

 

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Marriage: an assessment

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remarriage rate has kept up with divorce rate

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rejection of partners, not institution

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married still happier than single

 

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Alternative Household Forms

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Living together increased over six-fold since 1970

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often short-term

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higher divorce rate than those who did not live together first

 

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Staying single: 1999 = ca. 25-30% of Amer. households = one person

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Later marriages

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1999, ca. 68% of all women aged 20-24 = "never married": in 1970 this was 36%

 

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Single Parenthood

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 ca: 1:4 w/ kids under 18 = single parent households

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1999: approx. 19% white h/holds; 32% Hispanic; 53% African American

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ca. 50% of kids will spend part of their childhood with one parent

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still, ca. 90-95% of Americans will marry at least once

 

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The development of an unprecedented societal institution, in terms of household characteristics (esp. in terms of locality and lineality)

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patterns of locality: i.e., with which side of the family do the children tend to live?

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patrilocal -- nuclear, settle near the father's side

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matrilocal, near the mother's side

 

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patterns of lineality

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patrilineal -- trace blood and property lines along the father's side of the family

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matrilineal -- same, except traced along the mother's lineage

 

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lineality and locality have tended to accompany one another

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but American society, especially since the early 1970s has become a matrilocal & patrilineal society

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i.e., wealth tends to follow the father, children tend to follow the mother

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(about 90% of single-parent households are headed by the mother)

 

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State Stepping in: Bureaucratization of the American family?

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due to patrilinear, matrilocal nature of Amer. society, the family has had to find some means of equalizing income

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since 1970s -- courts examining distribution of income; increasing the amounts of child support awarded -- currently, efforts are underway to garnish wages, or in some way guarantee payments are made

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if kinship is unable to be organized in ways which keep household afloat bureaucratic agencies intervene

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Rationalizing the economy of the family (i.e., making it more formally rational)

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contractual child support

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child support enforcement procedures (courts; Social Security Administration)

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direct transfer payments (welfare payments)

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dependent survivor payments (death)

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 AFDC (non-death)  NOW TANF

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esp. in terms of household composition, the family has come to depend upon the state for its very survival

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Changes, Functionally:

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increasingly the family could not control the sexual behaviors of its members (eg, monogamy)

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increasingly, child-raising takes place outside the family under auspices of bureaucratic agencies

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household composition -- esp. economically, is organized nearly half the time by outside agencies

All are such new developments it's impossible to say whether these are "good" or "bad" things.

 

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